Experience the Power of Harmony in Your Partnership

I support you as a couple to:

ILLUMINATE with compassion the reactive cycles that disconnect you
TRANSFORM conflicts into healing & growth, cultivating deeper heart connection
CO-CREATE your life from a loving space of mutual trust and support
ENJOY the heartfelt nourishment of a reciprocal flow of loving care
LIVE your inspirations together!

Issues we can address together

Childhood Trauma: unresolved experiences clouding your connection
Sexual Trauma: contraction from traumtic sexual experiences
Communication: reactivity, defensiveness, shut down, blame, not being heard
Painful cycles: recurring issues that build tension and disconnection
Trust: distrust, resentment, and fears from a situation that led to rupture of trust
Sexuality: loss of passion, miscommunication, loss of mutuality & attunement
Intimacy: loss of open-hearted closeness or loss of inspiration to be together
Shared Values: misalignment on parenting, lifestyle, spirituality, finances, etc.

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What sessions involve

You will learn effective practices for mutual support and attunement.  I offer clear reflection, inviting questions and intuitive guidance.  I support you to get to the heart of what matters to one another,  clear what blocks the flow of love between you, return to loving presence together, and free your creative energy to live what your are inspired to live together!

I encourage full self-responsibility for your inner experience balanced with being empathically responsive to the inner experience of your partner. This means being attentive to what arises within when your partner does something that is challenging for you, and attentive to the what arises in your partner when you do something that is challenging for them.

 

My approach

I integrate the following practices:

Somative Counseling supports us to listen to the wisdom in the body, cultivate presence, release unresolved experiences, and rewire our neuro-pathways for trust and heartfelt connection.

Adult Attachment Coaching brings awareness to how our unmet needs, from the relationships with our primary caregivers in childhood, are being expressed in our current intimate relationship. We cultivate attunement and loving response to one another’s needs, allowing the healing of these residual childhood imprints.
 
Nonviolent Communication gives us effective tools for transforming painful reactions into conscious responses that create compassionate connection where everyone’s needs are valued.

Learn mutually supportive practices that fuel your partnership

Foundation
Practices

Creating Connection

Intend Connection

Pause to Rewire

Touch to Calm

Empathize with what matters

Communicate Compassionately

Reveal Transparently

Transformation
Practices

Growing Trust

Re-route Your Reactive Cycle

Vision Your Partnership  

Repair Connection

Reassure Love

Re-Source Yourself

Ask for Help

Hold One Another

Make Mutual Decisions

Everyday
Practices

Strengthening Resources

Give warm Hello’s and Goodbyes

Encourage One Another’s Gifts

Appreciate as Resource

Say No With Heart

Include Third Parties

Give Pleasure

Check your Integrity

Celebrate Successes!

Healing
Practices

Healing Unresolved Experiences

Release Limiting Beliefs

Illuminate The Triggers

Harmonize Beneath Strategies

Mourn Together

Respect your Differences

Receive Loving

 

What format works for you?

Before scheduling Sessions or Personal Retreats I request that we have a phone consultation to ensure that my support is a good fit for you.

Sessions

Individualized support
for your partnership

2hr Sessions
4 Session Packages

In person or by video online

6 Week Course

Learn effective practices
with weekly support

2 hr class/week
+ One 1 hr Session

In person or by video online

Personal Retreats

In-depth support to heal
multifaceted issues

3 Day Retreat
Skill Building, 5 Sessions,
Accomodation & Meals

Various Retreat Centers

Have a complimentary 30min Consult

Explore how I can support you in your relationship

What couples are saying

When your intimate relationship is harmonious, it becomes a nourishing resource, supporting you to give your gifts in the world!
— Melody Lucian