For partners inspired to live the fullest expression of their purpose together

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My Approach

I meet you where you are in the journey of your relationship together, and support you through the challenges, with a focus on uniting in purpose

ILLUMINATE
with compassion the reactive cycles that disconnect you

TRANSFORM
conflicts into growth and deeper connection

CO-CREATE
your life from mutual trust and support

ENJOY
the nourishment of a reciprocal flow of mutual loving

LIVE
your heart inspirations and express your gifts together!

Issues that we can address

Childhood Trauma
unresolved experiences clouding heartfelt connection

Communication
reactivity, defense, shut down, blame, being unheard

Painful Cycles
recurring issues that built up into tension and conflict

Trust
distrust, resentment, and fears from a rupture of trust

Sexuality
sexual trauma, or emotional hurt from absence of attunement

Intimacy
loss of open-heartedness or inspiration to be together

Shared Values
misalignment on parenting, lifes choices, etc

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What Sessions Involve

You will learn effective practices for mutual support and attunement.  I offer clear reflection, inviting questions and intuitive guidance.  I support you to get to the heart of what matters to one another,  clear what blocks the flow of love between you, return to loving presence together, and free your creative energy to live what your are inspired to live together!

I encourage full self-responsibility for your inner experience balanced with being empathically responsive to the inner experience of your partner. Through cultivating a loving mutuality, and reciprocal support for one another's growth, the relationship becomes a reservoir that fuels one another to live your purpose!

 

Learn mutuality practices that strengthen your partnership

Foundation Practices

For Creating Connection

Healing
Practices

For Clearing The Past

Everyday
Practices

For Cultivating Warmth

Transformation Practices

For Growing Trust

Modalities Essential to my Approach

Somatic Counseling

Embodied Awareness

Cultivating body focused awareness and inner resources, witnessing sensations, thoughts and emotions, listening to the wisdom of the heart, and allowing what is stored in the body to have expression and movement in order to release un-processed experiences and become more integrated.

Compassionate Communication

Conscious Relating

A communication process supporting us to relate consciously and compassionately. It gives us a practical and effective map for transforming habitual reactions (judging and blaming ways of speaking and thinking) into conscious connections that value everyone's needs. Also known as Nonviolent Communication.

Adult Attachment Coaching

Mutual Healing

Adult Attachment Coaching brings awareness to how our unmet needs, from the relationships with our primary caregivers in childhood, are being expressed in our current intimate relationship. We cultivate attunement and loving response to one another’s needs, allowing the healing of these residual childhood imprints.

Integral Yoga

Divine Life

The practice of bringing all aspects of oneself and one's life into union with the Divine; transforming the physical, mental, emotional, energetic, spiritual bodies into an instrument for our soul, as the intrinsic Divine within.

What couples are saying

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safety

"In sessions with Melody, I feel seen, heard, held, and loved no matter what comes up for me, or how I express myself. The unconditional support she provides has helped me to feel more confident in expressing my feelings. It feels so important to me that my husband can witness me process with Melody, because I'm able to move through things with her that feel stuck when it's just him and I. Through watching her support Blaise through his process, I have learned new ways of relating to him when he is triggered. Her skill at making people feel safe and warm is inspiring to me."

Haven, Client

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shared reality

"Melody has supported us in our marriage for several years. I feel very comfortable with Melody, and her strength and clarity of presence creates a space where it is easy to explore and express my inner world. When their is tension/conflict between my wife and I, it is common for us to look for one of us to be at fault, with one or both of us defending ourselves. What is most useful about sitting with Melody is that neither my wife nor I ever leave a session feeling wrong. She is able to support each of our individual truths and intelligences to come forward, and integrate into an updated shared reality. This process has been invaluable in our marriage."

Blaise, Client

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healing

 “Melody is a master at providing a safe, loving container for lasting transformational healing. My partner and I developed deeper intimacy and a stronger bond as a result of our sessions with her.” 

Karen, Client

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presence

“I am grateful for all the support Melody gave my partner and me. Her presence was amazing. I felt very seen, supported and loved by her. Afterwards much love and tenderness passed between me and my partner. ”

Kate, Client

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clarity

“Having Melody's presence, listening and reflecting skills assisted me to go deeper within myself to see more clearly what role I was playing in the conflict between my partner and me. Melody held a safe space for us to express how we felt. With more clarity I am now able to listen to my partner without reacting defensively.”

Mateo, Client

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reconnection

“Melody helped us reconnect after such a painful blow up, when it seemed irreparable. We couldn’t have done it without her, I am thankful from the depths of my heart for Melody!”

Elizabeth, Client

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light

“Melody has been like a beacon of light for me, in my darkest days with this relationship”

Lorne, Client

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When your intimate relationship is harmonious with your purpose, it nourishes you, and fuels you to give your gifts in the world!
— Melody Lucian